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How Unqualified Are You?

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The world is full of people in positions they are totally unqualified for.


Well, that is to the untrained eye.


You see God enjoys using people who most of us would consider unqualified. Let’s unpack this a bit, shall we?


When God steps in and grabs ahold of people who would identify as unqualified we witness such greatness.


God is great, powerful, wise, strong, capable, and all-knowing. He knows our beginning and our end all while He knits us together in our mother’s womb.


When Jesus takes the wheel our weakness no longer limit us because God works through those. We see that indeed nothing is impossible with God. We become freed from worldly beliefs, excessive people pleasing, limited mindset’s, corporate thinking, and all of our worldly limitations. We become freed from the shame of our past, failures, embarrassments and guilt because God can and will use all of that to help others in their life right where they are! What a beautiful thing this is!


I want to talk to you ladies today about feeling unqualified. If you noticed I didn’t say being unqualified I said feeling unqualified. There is a difference, a big one I believe.


According to Google dictionary being means existence, reality, actuality.


Feeling means an emotional state or reaction.


Just because we feel a certain way doesn’t mean it’s reality or actuality.


Unqualified means:

  1. Not officially recognized as a practitioner of a particular profession or activity through having satisfied the relevant conditions or requirements.
  2. Not competent or sufficiently knowledgeable to do something.


So you may not be officially recognized as far as worldly standards go but God is far greater. He is the Alpha and the Omega the beginning and the end.


Therefore when He calls us into something the worldly definition of qualified no longer matters. It is obsolete. What God has put together no man can stop. That my friends is a promise we can stand on.


Not feeling qualified isn’t the same as being unqualified. When God leads you into something know that He has qualified you for that.


Does this mean it’ll be easy for you? No, the truth is it won’t always be easy. But when God is on your side you already know you are going to make it.


Philippians 1:6 tells us, “I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”


So what can you do when you are feeling unqualified?


Go back to who God says you are in scripture. Look for specific scripture where God talks about how He’s created you, given each specific gifts, created a plan for you, and has plans to prosper you and not to harm you. If you need assistance getting started you can grab a free list of scripture I’ve compiled by clicking here. (no opt-in required)



Personalize the scripture when possible. Add in your name and repeat these to yourself randomly throughout your day. Bonus Tip: Set them as reminders on your phone so you can read them more often to help your subconscious absorb them as truth. Read More→


When You Want To Be Her

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We’ve all seen that woman who always looks beautiful.

When You Want to Be Her, by Carey Scott… even if she’s just worked out.
… even if she just rolled out of bed.
… even if she has 5 kids.
even if she has a full-time job.
…even if she’s been crying.

And we’ve thought to ourselves, “How can I compete with that?”

Especially because we try to look our best — except in morning drop-off line at school — and still can’t compete with her.

It’s frustrating.

And it not only triggers those insecurities that tangle us up, but it can also awaken the not-so-nice girl in each of us.

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When She Lashes Out At You…

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She let me have it.

The email was hurtful and hateful, and she held nothing back.

This woman called me every name in the book, explained in detail why I was unworthy of her following my blog, and gave me a laundry list of why I was irrelevant.When She Lashes Out At You…


And I opened this email while on vacation with my husband.

Double ouch.

When people lash out at us, it often reinforces those messages we already believe that remind us we’re worthless. Read More→

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When You Want to Get Even

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Carey Scott - Honest Chatter About Lifecarey-get-evenDo not say, “I’ll get even with you!” Wait for the LORD, and he will save you. (Proverbs 20:22)

Seriously?  This must be a misprint.

Because if I understand it right, we are being instructed to let God handle it when we’ve been wronged.  We are told to not be revengeful but rather… let Him hand out the judgments.

This may be an easy verse to recite until that moment hits, and you’re the one wronged.

Then, it takes on a whole new meaning.

It takes on a whole new degree of difficulty.

It brings a whole new level of frustration.

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Sometimes We Need To Shut Our Mouths

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Carey Scott - Honest Chatter About Lifecarey-shut-mouthWant some sound advice to make your marriage flourish?

Here it is:  “Sometimes you need to shut your mouth, and pray about it instead.

A friend of mine spoke that into my life years ago.  While it initially caught me off guard (and made me a little defensive), it has proven to be wise advice.

You see, there are times the best thing we can do is keep our mouths closed.

Sheesh… so much easier said than done, eh?

She shared this advice after I dished about things my husband was doing that I wanted changed.  I had been looking for opportunities to share those things with Wayne.  I’d become so vocal about wanting him to be different which put a strain on our relationship.

But she reminded me that wasn’t the kind of wife God wanted me to be.  

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There’s Something About It

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Carey Scott - Honest Chatter About Lifecarey-somethingThere’s something sweet about being called away from the busyness of life to spend time reconnecting to God’s heart.

There’s something comforting about redirecting your focus from the world to your family.

There’s something humbling about realizing you’re not as important as you thought.

There’s something rejuvenating about giving your mind and body intentional rest.

There’s something profound about stepping back and seeing the bigger picture.

There’s something calming about the absence of deadlines staring you down.

And I realize for this to happen, sometimes you have to give up…in order to gain.

“You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”  (Jeremiah 29:13)

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Struggling With the “What-Ifs”

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Carey Scott - Honest Chatter About Lifecarey-what-ifMy family went camping this past weekend.

There is nothing like carving out a space in nature, propping up a tent,  lighting a fire, roasting hot dogs, fishing in the river, and sleeping with the sounds of nature ushering in sweet dreams.


I stayed home.

While my description of camping above always sounds good in theory, I realize that my reality is totally different.

I love to be outdoors.

I love the smell of a campfire.

S’mores are one of life’s great pleasures.

But that’s where it ends.  To be honest, camping to me is the Holiday Inn Express.

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Sometimes I Want More

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Carey Scott - Honest Chatter About Lifecarey-moreI wish that God’s endorsement was the only approval I craved.

Sheesh… it would make my life so much easier.

But I have a confession.

Too often, I care about what others think… more.  And that kind of thinking is a demonic trap that sets me up for failure, because I try to hit a moving target.

What a lose-lose situation.

While I know my Creator loves me and accepts me  without conditions, there are times I still long for… “more.”

And that “more” feeds my appetite for the world’s adoration… which is full of conditions.

Requirements I cannot possibly meet.

Neither can you.  

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The Alphabet of God

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Carey Scott - Honest Chatter About Lifecarey-alphabetMy husband said to me the other day, “Carey, we are in such a place of bounty.  God is blessing our family so richly.”

It’s true.

We’ve walked in some crunchy places lately.

We’ve overcome situations that could have caused us to drown in despair.

Our path has been filled with rocks and mud.

But today… I’m in a grateful place.

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It Will Find You

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Carey Scott - Honest Chatter About Lifecarey-find-you1988.

24 years ago.

That’s 288 months.

And if my math is right… it adds up to 8,760 days.

THAT is the expiration date of the bear-shaped bottle of clover honey I found in my pantry last weekend.

Oh my stars… that is insane. 

I’m sure many of you are either laughing at me or dashing to your pantry to see if you can beat that date.

… I feel pretty confident I hold the record.

But here’s the interesting thing…

I’ve actually been intentional in cleaning out the pantry (no, really), checking dates and tossing things that have expired.  I’ve even re-arranged what items go on what shelf several times in the past several years.

But somehow… I missed this.

And even though I thought I’d been good about tossing foods past their prime, this bottle of honey – shoved into the very back, dark corner of the shelf – sat undetected.

Ugh… Gross.

But you know what?  This concept translates so perfectly to or lives.

While I’ve been diligent to dispose of some obvious rotten attitudes and actions… a few have managed to remain hidden.

Eventually though, they see the light of day.

Here’s what I mean…

I may choose to speak words of affirmation and encouragement, but now and then a “spicy” word or two slips out of my mouth in frustration.

I’ll decide not to watch certain TV shows because of language or content, but linger a bit too long on a different show that pushes the same limit.

I will resolve to follow God’s command to love others, but find exception with that one person who tests my patience (no, it’s not you).

Undoubtedly, those old sinful attitudes and actions have been around a long time.  They’ve become habits.  They are familiar responses and thought-patterns, so we tend to be blind to the sinful component of each.

Dude… you’ve got ‘em, too.

And rest assured: they will be revealed.

As the Israelites were preparing to cross the Jordan River and battle for possession of the Promised Land, two tribes (Gad and Reuben) decided that rather than join in the battle with their brothers, they wanted to stay put and set up camp there instead.  When they approached Moses with their plan, he wasn’t pleased.

He recounted the wrath of God when they’d refused to take Canaan after the spies (minus Joshua and Caleb) reported the inhabitants were too big and unconquerable.  God’s punishment of 40 years in the desert was fresh in their memories.

Moses said in Number 32:23… “But if you don’t do this, you’ve sinned against the Lord. Know that your sin will find you.”

In other words:  At some point… Expect consequences.

That truth still holds steady today.

Just like that 24-year-old bottle of honey, eventually God will open our pantry and reveal things that expired long ago and need to be thrown away… for good.

Sometimes we try to hide our sin.

Other times we may not realize it’s that big of an issue.

And some may miss it all together.

But God is gracious enough to point it out.

You see, He wants more for His children.  Our Father loves us too much to leave us where we are.  But it requires something of us.

It takes submission to His plan.

It takes some intentionality.

It takes willingness to look honestly at our “stuff.”

It requires allowing God to clean our pantries for expired things.

As Christ-followers, let’s be willing to toss out habits… attitudes… thoughts… words… and actions… that bring rot and decay into our lives.

Because honestly… we were created to live for so much more.

What keeps you from letting go of your old ways and embracing the new life you have in Jesus?


ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Carey Scott is an inspirational speaker and writer, honest about her walk with the Lord… stumbles, fumbles and all. She loves to challenge women to be real, not perfect. Through her blog she encourages women to stop living a mediocre, risk-free life and instead step onto the battlefield of life and engage! She is a bi-weekly blogger on CWAHM and serves as a host on the Moms Together Facebook community. She and her husband live in Colorado with their two kids.

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