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Adoption: God’s Eternal Choice
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November is National Adoption month. My wife and I became parents through the process of adoption 24 and 21 years ago. So, we know the expectations and disappointments; the laughter and the tears. We have weathered the kind and sometimes misinformed comments by others. We understand the home studies, the legal maze and finally the unspeakable joy of taking a child into our arms as a wonderful gift from God. And we know well the assuring message of the Lord from Psalm 127:3 “Children are a heritage from the LORD, offspring a reward from him.” One of the beautiful truths that we understand is that God places children in the home of His choosing. All along, He had a plan for our children to be in our home; they just came into the world through a different birth canal. And not only do we understand this but our children do too. It has always been a source of blessing to see how secure our children are in knowing that we love them and that we are their parents.
As I have thought through the difficult process of adoption and the resulting joy, it has always taken me to the Scriptures that teach us about how we were adopted into God’s family, and the security that He offers us.
Romans 8:14-16 says:
“ For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, “Abba, Father.” The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children.”
(Please go to http://www.biblebb.com/files/mac/sg45-59.htm for an excellent study on Biblical Adoption )
Here are some truths that help us understand our security in Christ that comes through adoption:
- If we are following the leading of the Holy Spirit (2nd Person of the God-Head), that is evidence in our lives that the Holy Spirit is in us and we have been adopted by God. He only indwells the lives of God’s adopted Children. (All of God’s children are adopted) Read More→
Labor Day History For Kids
Posted by: | CommentsBy Nicola Kennedy
Of all the things our teachers teach our children, they do not often touch on the idea of Labor Day history for kids. How much do our children know about this important holiday? If anything, they only know that it is a holiday for workers, but that is the extent of it in most cases.
The designation of Labor Day as a national holiday prior to the turn of the 20th century is historical enough for our children to know about the history of the holiday, and not just that it is a holiday for working class Americans and Canadians. It is an important part of their heritage as Americans to know that the celebration began in 1882 in New York for those working under labor unions. From its conception in 1882 to its later designation into a national holiday in a bill signed by President Grover Cleveland, it has become an important part of our history.
Some confusion may exist concerning the adoption of the first Monday in September as the official Labor Day celebration. Some sources say it’s to differentiate it from the Socialist Labor Day on May 1st, a date that later became May Day, and others indicate that it was chosen because it is halfway between Independence Day and Thanksgiving. Regardless of which version you accept as truth, it is still important to know that Labor Day is not just a holiday to celebrate the unofficial end of summer, nor is its purpose to signify the beginning of autumn and a return to school for our children. Read More→
Guest Post: The Balancing Act: Feel Like You’re Walking on A Parenting Tightrope?
Posted by: | Commentsby Candi Wingate
Busy moms have a lot in common with circus performers. We have to juggle many balls in the air – and we worry that it’s all going to come crashing down at any moment! Additionally, we strive to perfect our balancing act, some days feeling more surefooted than others. Add some crying babies, toddlers melting down and kids needing help with homework, rides to soccer practice, a Band Aid or a snack, and your life often feels like a three-ring circus!
Many moms are looking for that “perfect” balance between family, chores, work, “me time” and time with their partner and friends. But since there are only 24 hours in a day, how are we supposed to fit it all in?
* Rely on a nanny for help with childcare, shuttling kids to school and other activities, as well as errands and housework. Delegate some responsibilities so you can spend your limited time on things you want to do – like playing with your kids.
* Don’t forget to take care of yourself. Our inclination as mothers is to care for our children, husband, friends and colleagues…which leaves no time to take care of ourselves! Eat right, exercise, get plenty of sleep and drink lots of water. When you feel good, you’ll be better equipped to deal with your hectic schedule. And when you’re not feeling your best, you’re much more likely to feel overwhelmed. Read More→
Guest Post: Can You Be a Better Parent With The Help of a Nanny?
Posted by: | Commentsby Candi Wingate
There are many reasons that families have nannies. Most reasons are something similar to ensuring proper, nurturing supervision of the children while the parents are otherwise occupied. However, there is another benefit. Did you know that nannies can help parents be better parents?
Nannies As Stress Relievers
If you delegate your routine household chores (light housekeeping, laundry, washing dishes, grocery shopping, errand running, etc.) to the nanny, then more of the time that you have at home with your children can be quality time (time reserved for interaction with your children). Additionally, if the nanny’s relieving you of these tasks makes you feel less stress on a day-to-day basis, you will be a more relaxed, patient, nurturing parent. Finally, there are times when parents simply need more than two hands to accomplish all that needs to be accomplished at any given time in the home (for example, what does a parent do if both of the twins are crying . . . in different rooms . . . and no other adult is at home to help?). By having a nanny, parents have another set of hands to help them attend to concurrent issues. In sum, by enabling more time to be spent in quality parent-child interaction, increasing a parent’s ability to be patient and nurturing, and providing an additional set of hands in times where multiple time demands are concurrent, nannies can help you be a better parent. Read More→
Guest Post: What do you expect from God?
Posted by: | CommentsJob 21:11: They send forth their little ones like a flock, and their children dance.
Parenthood is a funny thing. It is chock full of purpose and meaning, and we are plunged into it from day one. And yet, God allows the richness and fullness to be revealed over time, much like our relationship with Him. The longer I walk with the Lord, the deeper the love I find with Him. The deeper the love goes, the more I realize how little I know of our magnificent Creator. In my quest to know Him better, I see reflected back, my children’s quest to know their parents better.
Through the years as my own mother has aged, I have found it fascinating to hear stories of her in various situations. Old college friends have shared with me special memories of their friendship with my mom, antics they participated in, special and fun times. Conversely, they have shared fascinating and intense stories of coming of age and being married during World War II.
I’ve learned my mom is multi-faceted, much like a beautiful gem. She was a brilliant and carefree girl, a young woman who was on her college archery team, and an accomplished horsewoman. Read More→
Guest Post: Integrity in Business Will Bring Success
Posted by: | Commentsby Laurie Neumann
Having integrity in business doesn’t seem to be as important as it used to. Today, there are many people afraid to do business with others because they don’t know who they can trust.
Maybe it has to do with the growth of the internet or a society that has gotten away from Christian principles. Whatever the reason, having integrity in the way you conduct your business will set you apart. It will help others see they can trust you and will bring them back to you over and over again.
What is integrity? Integrity brings to mind the concepts of honesty, reliability, dependability, following through on commitments and displaying high character at all times. The Bible references integrity in the following verses. ”He who walks with integrity walks securely…” Proverbs 10:9; “The integrity of the upright will guide them…” Proverbs 11:3; “But as for me, I will walk in my integrity… Psalm 26: 11 Read More→
Guest Post: Seasonal Professional – Be Gone
Posted by: | CommentsDoes your professionalism ebb and flow with the changing seasons? Find it harder to keep that crisp edge during summer break with a house full of energetic kids (plus an added playmate or two) or with preschoolers 24/7 year round? I’m here to tell you that regardless of the time of year it IS possible. What’s the secret? A bit of pre-planning.
Pre-planning from snacks prepared ahead in the right grab-n-go size, to having a supply of rainy day projects in a special box – pulled out for those moments you need to really focus for 20 minutes of uninterrupted bliss, to covering the desktop in shaving cream for a little lime scented fingerpainting. Taking the time to line up some activities can be such a stress reducer and an empowerment tool that enables you to do what you do best without worries. No one knows your child and his attention span like you do so plan accordingly (and individually).
One of the biggest stealers of professionalism surrounds phone calls with child noises in the background so let’s review some solutions: Read More→
Sink Revelations: Talking to Your Kids about God without Using Words
Posted by: | Commentsby Joy Jochems
Some of my biggest “ah-ha!” moments come in some of the strangest places: in the car, in the bathroom, at the kitchen sink. It was the latter that brought a moment of inspiration most recently. Perhaps you would like to hear it as my heart heard it:
“Joy?”
“Yes, Lord?”
“You had a really fun weekend, didn’t you?”
“It was awesome! There was the dinner out with friends, and then shopping with my best buddy, then a movie night … It was a weekend of fun that filled my extroverted tank!”
“And how are you feeling on this fine Monday?”
“Fine Monday? Seriously, Lord, it’s not so fine. Dishes, laundry, cranky kids, bills to pay … not exactly tank-filling material. I’m not really seeing the ‘fine’ in it, let alone the fun. To be honest, Lord, I’m just trying to make it through today.”
“So why is it that your weekend was so amazing, and now your joy is feeble?”
As I considered the Lord’s question to my heart and the Spirit’s conviction found its mark, I realized that I have been living for the next fun thing. I find myself thinking about that “next fun thing” that will fill my social appetite, or I find myself dwelling on how boring and tedious the every day is. Read More→
Guest Post: Fun and Educational Summer Activities
Posted by: | Commentsby Candi Wingate
School’s out for the summer. You would like to plan fun and educational activities for your children. Here are a few suggestions.
You can take advantage of sports, classes, and activities offered by civic or governmental organizations in your community. These include municipal sports teams (i.e., baseball, softball, and soccer), YMCA/YWCA swimming lessons, art center youth programs and classes (i.e., painting pottery, drawing and painting, and clay art), museum youth programs (i.e., day camps and museum sleep-overs), planetarium youth programs and activities (i.e., junior astronomer programs), community theatre youth programs (i.e., youth theatre presentations), zoo youth programs (i.e., “all about __type of animal__” programs), public library reading programs (i.e., a Harry Potter reading group), club memberships and activities (i.e., Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, Cub Scouts, Brownies, Bluebirds, 4-H, etc.), and church summer camps.
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Guest Post: How to Keep Yourself Organized while the Kids are Home from School
Posted by: | Commentsby Corrie Petersen
Do you know how to keep yourself organized while the kids are home for summer break? Working a business with kids can be a challenge at anytime, but it’s even more difficult when they’re at home all the time.
Depending on the age, they may want you to play games with them or they may need your undivided attention at times. When this happens, you may not get a thing done for your business.
You need to plan and organize your day so you can get the most work done during the day and still have time to spend with the kids. Here are a few suggestions for you to consider. Read More→






























